It is no surprise that we are most often our worst critics. Many of us battle the negative voice in our head that says “we aren’t good enough”. That inner voice may lead you to believe that you are weak or a failure and will never achieve your goal.
How do we fight the negative voices? I believe that you have to acknowledge the negative thoughts and label them for what they are. Rather than getting stuck in the thought process, acknowledge it and ask yourself if it is truth. If your inner voice is telling you that you are weak, take a minute to assess the validity of the statement. Have you made positive changes in you life? Are you more consistent with training or making better nutrition choices? Those all require strength and therefore discounts the statement “you are weak”.
When attempting to remove negative thoughts, it is important to replace them with something positive. Otherwise, the negative thoughts will just creep back into the empty space. There may be times in life when it might be more challenging to find the positive so keep it simple. Celebrate and focus on even the small victories.
You are in control of your thoughts and whether they are negative or positive. It takes time and practice but you can retrain your brain. We are here for you and always happy to remind you of the positives. One Get Fit NH Family member reached out through email and shared her struggles and negative thoughts with us. I was so proud of her for acknowledging her struggling and letting us come along side of her. She vented and vowed not to get stuck in the current thought process. We are in this together!